Thursday, March 20, 2008

Hamantaschen Update

Lime instead of lemon in the dough is a good thing.

Especially when paired with a ginger spread filling, such as this one.

My hamantaschen can kick your bubbe's hamantaschen's ass. Around the block. ;-}

Tuesday, March 18, 2008

This is me posting something

see? still here.

meh. this is what I anticipate for the end of the week:

hamantaschen. groggers. sticky jelly-covered costumes.

having to leave before the spiel and megillah reading because they're after Chalal's bedtime.

no seudah because everyone's working on Friday.

no babysitters because everyone's out of town or has plans.


Yeah, some Purim.

Still, going to try something new this year - grated lime peel in the hamantaschen dough and mango jam (or something like it) for the filling. Yay. Feel the excitement. (Can you tell it's been raining for two weeks straight?)

Next year: better planning.

Thursday, March 06, 2008

Daganev hits the nail on the head

On a recent Dov Bear post, the comment thread included a contribution from Daganev, a frequent visitor there, which so neatly sum up the rationale for a two-state solution that I want to preserve and ratify it here (typos and spelling notwithstanding):
  1. We are tired of supporting and being responcible for the water/power/saftey of people who would just as likley kill us.
  2. We are tired of being at war with people who are portrayed as homeless people.
  3. We want to see an end to jews dieing in the long run, and Israel becoming a non Jewish state.This means that if Palestinians have thier own country, and they attack us, we can rightfully declare war and do the lawfull war stuff, and when we attack them we won't be at the same time supplying them with power, which means we can block it. Unless they want a treaty with us, then theres no violence, and we can live our happy lives.

But having this limbo situation of not knowing who is who or what is what is not a happy existance.

While the "live our happy lives" idea is unfortunately farfetched, the rest is exactly how I feel. Thanks for laying it out so clearly, Daganev.

Wednesday, March 05, 2008

Subtlety is better. Except with grandmothers.

Let me say, first, that Bad Cohen's grandmother is a truly wonderful person. Generous, thoughtful, funny, etc.

Her character and conscientiousness are part of the reason we sat, last night, through a couple of ill-prepared string pieces, accompanied by what I like to think of as the "Mel Brooks" of dance, in which they prefer to bash you over the head with the point, instead of offering anything subtle.

Bad Cohen (as you may know) is a musician and composer, largely of neo-romantic pieces. Meaning, they sound nice, they are good to listen to (unlike the work of some of his peers). He likes to go to concerts, to sit still and not do anything else for up to two or three hours, listening to live performances of classical music. His grandmother also loves to do this.

Naturally, they like to share those things they enjoy with friends and family.

Only, I really *can't stand* going to the symphony.

I fidget. I twiddle. I think about all the other things I would rather be doing (like reading a book, or cleaning the bathtub). Classical music, to me, is something that happens in the background, on the radio probably, while you are busy doing something interesting.

And at $50 a pop, buying me a ticket and asking me to attend is not only torture for me, it's a waste of money.

After two years of receiving a "gift" of season tickets for two to the symphony from this loving grandmother, seats right next to her, so she not only knows if we attend but picks up on whether we enjoy it, I tried to express my feelings in a polite way.

I think I said something like, "at least at the opera, there's something to look at."

Unfortunately, she took this to mean that I enjoy attending opera. After a couple of painful performances (Carmen was one), I was floundering for something nice to say while expressing my distaste for sitting still for something as ludicrous as opera. I must have mentioned enjoying the dancing. At which point, she decided I must love the ballet.

Ah, the ballet.

Strongly muscled gay men (at least in our local company) and anorexic-looking women wearing too much makeup, wafting around the stage, overacting, suddenly remembering to smile, flutter flutter, ooh! did you see my arm move? let's do it again just to be sure... all accompanied by the overwhelming stench of old lady perfume from the surrounding seats.

I am a huge fan of folk music and modern dance. (Not together. Although, hmm, an interesting thought. Probably not worth pursuing.)

Having never asked what I ACTUALLY ENJOY, BC's grandmother probably doesn't know this. And I don't know how to correct her misapprehensions without offending her.

Her modus operandi is to make a birthday gift to each of us by offering us a choice of experiences she has preselected from among all the various local offerings of "Art." (Yes, that's Art with a capital A.) I'm pretty sure the things I actually enjoy don't fit in this category.

So I am liable to be stuck going to the ballet or something like it at least once a year.

No advice, please, only sympathy.